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Pet Peeves

There are quite many things that qualify for this blog, however let me start with my pet itself :-) . These days my major annoyance is that he pokes his nose too much almost everywhere well quite literally. So that means if a door is closed and the AC is on, he would poke his nose and barge in with elan with a high expectation to be pampered and treated with open arms. But the question arising out of the whole situation is who closes the door finally…well let’s keep that a secret.

Another pet peeve of mine these days is travelling in the auto and getting baked in the hot winds under the sun. It is quite a task to travel back home in this weather. Lucky are the people who live at far away places and take the AC metro to travel to work. Though, the noise pollution and the crowd in the metro is another story altogether. But the metro is quite neat and clean and quite convenient mode of transport.

Alphawoman and Female Foeticide

It is really sad to think that India is grappling with the issue of female foeticide and screwed up sex ratio. It is more prevalent in some states than others where the male child is considered far more superior than the female child. Things in states like Punjab and Haryana are as bad as the caste system which is still vehemently prevalent in India.

Actually, there are two extremes as far as females are concerned. At one end is the one who is killed after the sex determination and at the other end of the spectrum is the alphawoman. Ya, the population of such women is on the rise and in fact in the metropolitan areas everyone wants to be one. So who is this alphawoman? She is the new age woman who knows what she wants and gets it too. She is mentally strong and financially not dependent on her husband or family. Uninhibited as she is, she finds her glory in things like getting the highest education possible, arranging her own wedding or honeymoon, and opting for a surrogate mother for her baby if she is too busy with work. And in this entire rigmarole,what the male partner feels about the whole thing  and what all steps he might take – it is better not to comment on it.

My daughter calls me Mumma now! :-)

After much persuasion, my daughter Eva has started calling me mumma from today. Now her every sentence addressed to me has this beautiful word attached to it which I was longing to hear since she started speaking. So it is, ‘Mumma, where are you?’, ‘Mumma, what are you doing?’ or ‘Mumma, shall we go to toy room?’

Every day is full of surprises and I just couldn’t resist writing this blog in the middle of an exciting cricket match. I just don’t know where she catches words from because her vocabulary is increasing by leaps and bounds even though she still can’t read. Yesterday, I got a pack of story books for her and she started flipping through them. By just watching the pictures, she started telling me the story on her own. It was Goldilocks and the Three Bears and I will never forget that.

Pre School Dilemma

Last week has gone in visiting pre-schools in Gurgaon and getting confused. When it comes to your kid, everyone wants the best. Last time round in Bombay, I got her admitted to a Pre-school and thankfully the outcome was very good. But before that when she was just two, we didn’t have a very good experience with Kangaroo Kids. The teachers used to call me saying that your kid is crying and disturbing the class, take her away please. And we didn’t like the overall approach.

So, this time round we were quite apprehensive and the responsibility of her admission was taken over by my hubby. And then we started going round in circles. The first pre-school we visited was Fastrackids, an American pre-school. The director was very warm but way too outspoken. Having stayed 12 long years in US, she wanted it all the American way. I was just about shocked when I saw a projected touch screen which would be used to teach the kids. We tried and made an early exit. I don’t want any technology for her at two years ten months. I guess TV is enough.

Stop fooling yourself…

When it comes to food, there are people who just can’t resist it. If someone points out their irregular shape, they have hundreds of excuses to support their habit. A recent article about the same opened my eyes as I am myself battling with the bulge (well not that much!) and want to lose some weight and which is oh so difficult!

The excuses would range from diets don’t work for me, it’s in my hormones to simple ones like it’s in my genes or it’s pure water retention. But seriously, we should stop fooling ourself and chalk out a proper diet plan. If you can’t resist the dessert after the meals, just make sure you exercise a bit to make up for it.

Exercise need not mean heavy gymming but walking and swimming are a good substitute. Yoga is the best bet but if you are not up to it, just start with some walking or jogging.