Half-yearly exams are ending
tomorrow and finally I have got some time to put my thoughts to words. More so,
because the only exam left is the third language and darling daughter is
well-equipped to deal with French on her own. I am not exactly a passive
listener for other subjects and try to give my two cents in the time of need.
And yes, Google baba is always there for us when we get stuck.
Moving on from the family
brouhaha, today I would like to bring up the topic of ‘screen time’ which was
almost absent in our times. These days, kids are engulfed with various
categories of screen time, starting from television, tablet, laptop, and our
very own favourite gadget, mobile! So one thing after another and there you go.
Children do not have time to lift an eyelid or go play outside; remember
physical activity is a must. They are glued to the available gadget whenever
they can make fool of their parents. I have noticed that some parents in an
attempt to complete their work at home themselves provide these amenities to
their children. They will do their own work while the child happily watches
youtube videos to the hilt. Even infants these days would not eat their food if
they don’t see a specific program on the tablet which the poor bai holds right
in front of their eyes…
Coming to the point, needless to
say that I am not against the concept of screen time, but I feel that it should
be restricted by the parents and should be available to the children under some
form of supervision. It is for the experts to decide how much time should be
spent by a child in front of the screen. It should not happen that the child’s
eyesight suffers due to the neglect by the parents. That’s the reason why
grandparents are again in demand these days as they can at least engage the
child in a conversation and distract his/her mind from the screen.
There are parents who are giving a mobile to their children at a young age of 10 or 11 but it should be used under guidance. Similar should be the case for all other screens. Most importantly, there should be some emphasis on the family time when either everyone eats together or are engaged in an activity. What do you feel about this topic? How much screen time are your children getting?
This month saw the untimely
passing away of two stalwarts of BJP, Sushma Swaraj and Arun Jaitley. It is
indeed a sad month for the party as these leaders are irreplaceable. The void
that they have left cannot be filled by anyone easily. Both the leaders were
very knowledgeable and had a large fan following across the nation. May their
respective souls rest in peace.
Right now I am a little excited
on hearing the news that our very own badminton player, P. V. Sindhu has won
the World Championship. Incidentally, it is her mom’s birthday and she has
dedicated her win to her mother. What a nice piece of news to end a Sunday
with. Sindhu was trying to win for the last couple of times but could bag the
medal this time round. Coach Gopichand must be on cloud nine and why not. It’s
a big honour for the nation.
The situation in J & K is
slowly returning to normal. It will take a lot of time though. Due to the militancy,
the development could not take place but slowly people are realising that the
government decision to scrape Article 370 was the right one. Recently read
about a couple who left their high profile jobs to settle down in Laddakh and
help in the overall development of the region. Thanks to them, solar panels
have been installed in many schools and children are getting the education they
so rightly deserve.
I have been reading a book or two
and the next post would most probably be a book review. So, stay tuned!
The suicide of VG Siddhartha has
yet again brought depression to the forefront. He was unable to pay his debts
and as a result chose the easier route to eternal peace. He didn’t want to take
any further blame for the dire situation at Café Coffee Day. CCD is a popular
coffee outlet for the youngsters as one can sit there without being disturbed
for long. Even free Wi-Fi is available.
Depression can ruin anyone’s life
but when it goes out of hand it takes the form of suicide. People with
depression are so despondent at times that they don’t think even once how their
near and dear ones will cope with the situation once they are gone. The mind
plays games that no one knows about. It is very necessary to contain the
problem before it goes out of hand either through medication or counselling or
both in moderation. The role of family members in providing support to the
depressed is also of utmost importance.
Another interesting piece of news
that I came across today related to a customer asking for a non-muslim guy for
delivering food from Zomato as saavan is going on. He received a befitting
reply from the founder Deepinder Goyal, “We aren’t sorry to lose business that
comes in the way of our values.” Actually it is a dangerous trend which should
be contained as early as possible. Such absurd demands cannot be met and they
only show the mental bankruptcy of the person demanding.
India is a secular state and
people should be encouraged to treat the fellow men in the same regard. There
should be no distinction based on caste or creed and everyone should be treated
with equal respect though sadly that is not the case. But the bottomline is
that whenever there is an opportunity to put things right, we should do that as
was done by Zomato founder.
I lost my baby Beetle yesterday. He was a pet dachshund and lived his life to the fullest, being ill for about a month before moving away to a whole new world. I am still coming to terms with the fact that he is no more around and I can’t take his name often. I am remembering all the good moments spent with him one by one. He was always active and jovial at home. Outside of home, he used to become a bit territorial but we could manage that. I was his mom and he was closest to me though Harsha and Eva were also very close to him, something I witnessed when his last rights were being performed. All of us broke into tears as we shared a bond and Beetle was our family member.
What was the most funny thing
about Beetle? Well, he had a liking for the carpet in the living room and used
to dig right in its middle whenever he felt like. It was as if a tunnel was
being built with all diligence. This breed, dachshund, are famous for their
digging and hunting capabilities. Also, he had a very loud bark, enough to
scare a non dog lover. He used to guard the gate with all his might and wouldn’t
allow anyone to come in easily. I had to lock him up briefly before I could
even talk to the person at my door. Whenever I felt low, he would come and sit
with me and try to comfort me.
Beetle was a perfect apartment
dog and stayed with us for close to 15 years. We will miss him terribly and the
void cannot be filled by anyone else. I feel like I have lost someone very near
and dear. Hope he finds even more loving parents in his next life. You will
live with us in our memories, Beetle! Goodbye for now.
Was checking my e-mail and it came
as a rude shock that my Amazon Prime order has been converted to pay on
delivery. They didn’t provide any specific reason for it, though. The maid has
not turned up (she can have a headache too) and I am left wondering how to cope
up with that.
Hubby dear has got a new music
system installed in the car and he gladly takes us down for a demo of the same,
gadget lover that he is. We hop into the car and praise it liberally. Darling
daughter is busy with her own stuff, this being the last week to enjoy holidays
as it is back to school from July 1st. I casually pick up the
newspaper only to be bogged down by the horrible and unfortunate news of a depressed
teacher killing whole of his family as he and his wife were not keeping well.
Strange are the ways of the world…
I try to turn my mind to
something else and request Alexa to play some songs. Alexa promptly starts
playing my favourites. Definitely a mood booster, that is. And Alexa has her
moods too. When she doesn’t want, she will not turn on the lights. Does come up
with some or the other reason.
The pet dachshund is hard to
please these days and will do his own thing. Even in summers he seems to love
the sun and is found lying in the kitchen where the sun comes in. Old age has
Yesterday darling daughter came
back from swimming with a serious concern, “Mumma, why don’t these 3-4 year old
boys go and change in the men’s room?” I said that their mothers or helps must
be bringing them to the ladies room. “Yes mumma, but how come they have the
audacity to do that!!” My girl was sufficiently concerned and I had to say that
I will bring up the matter on the group. Women’s liberation jindabad!