The second wave of Covid has been brutal to say the least. It seems that every household has been affected be it with just the infection or an untimely demise. As a result, the norms of healthy living had to be changed overnight and almost everyone had to follow the restrictions brought forth by the partial or complete lockdown imposed by the government across the nation.
The daily routine of an average person has completely changed. Office goers have to sit at home which has led to dynamic changes in the home environment. One of the rooms has been completely converted to the office with all the necessary resources. Housewives or the lady of the house has been bombarded with the demand for new recipes as everyone in the house is super hungry most of the time.
Other changes include the RWAs of the societies making their own rules as per the existing situation, which needs to be followed by the residents. For example, when walks are allowed, you can walk only on the outer periphery of the condo in the counterclockwise direction with your mask on. If you fail to comply there will be repercussions such as your picture being clicked and put up on the society’s telegram group and you might be bullied publicly. Not only that, but you will also have to pay a hefty fine too.
Maids were not allowed to begin with. This has led to spike in the sales of Ready to Eat meals which are a blessing for someone like me who does not enjoy cooking. Other solace is that the housework is being shared between the family members though it might not be the case everywhere. In my household, the lockdown has led to the purchase of the dishwasher and a cleaning bot which have been godsend appliances for me. I would recommend these for every household.
As we are not going out, the clothes are not leaving the almirahs for long. We can’t go out for shopping so there is a surge in online shopping. Even oximeters and oxygen concentrators are being bought online.
If God forbid, you are the infected house then you will have to quarantine yourself for 15 days and through proper care and recovery emerge a winner at the end.
To be honest, I had not seen death so closely and so often. This second wave has taught everyone that death is just at arm’s length. With a heavy heart you have to offer the condolences to the family of the deceased which may be your friends or members of your extended family.
To me the bottom-line is to stay home and stay safe and follow all the necessary precautions. We need to be ready for the third wave too even if everything is going well right now. No one knows how dangerous it might be, so we need to pull up our boots and stay alert and safe.
Evening 8 PM. Switch to Republic TV and all you can see is the Sushant Singh Rajput’s murder mystery getting more complicated and murkier with each passing minute. Arnab and his Republic has gone ahead and broken all the records of investigative journalism in this case. It is a sensitive case as SSR has become a national sensation after his death. You might agree with me if I say that the 34 year old actor wasn’t that famous when he was alive. He has reached millions of hearts after his demise. But the bottomline is that inspite of the news channel propaganda, facts will remain facts whatever said and done!
When I am bored from Republic i switch to India Today, and lo and behold, it portrays an entirely different view of the whole situation. SSR’s girlfriend, Rhea, becomes someone who can be sympathized with. Other channels are called Banana Republic, pun intended. Arnab on the other hand has said with as much emotional appeal as possible that Rhea is a very dangerous woman and should be put behind the bars for the abetment of SSR suicide or rather his murder. So Rhea does get arrested by the Narcotics Control Bureau for her alleged drug involvement along with her brother, Showick. I for one can’t believe that Rhea could be such a scheming individual. I somehow feel that she did what she could for her partner and now that SSR has gone no one wants to give it a thought that he might have got himself embroiled in the vicious circle of drugs, medicines for depression and his own standing in the society and as a result committed suicide. Even CBI is yet to come up with a better explanation of this tragedy.
The Hindi news channels have gone a step too far and dissected SSR’s life like that of a guniea pig. My only take is that they should now stop the rumour-mongering and raking the TRPs for God’s sake. They should provide some dignity to the tragedy and let SSR’s soul finally rest in peace. I am a SSR fan myself and would like to demand some respect for the departed soul. News channels can now focus on Indo China stand-off or the farm bill. We would readily listen.
So yes, it is a stupendous situation that we are in and nobody could have thought that they would witness something of this kind in their whole life. We have a lot to tell our grandchildren that we witnessed this pandemic and came out of it, unscratched, well not really. The gravity of the situation can be judged from the fact that countries all around the world are witnessing spurt in cases and there is nothing much we can do to control it. The vaccine is awaited and its only through social distancing and basic hygiene that we can overcome this covid devil. Yes, it is a devil which has evolved from bats and can spread alarmingly fast if we don’t follow basic precautions.
Our PM has been constantly connecting with us and asking us to be confined to our homes till the devil goes away. His last address to the nation was categorical as he talked about making India self-reliant, but I feel that during the lockdown each one of us has become aatmnirbhar in our own ways. Yes, we have! So, the lady of the house has to manage everything without the support of the elusive bai and she is doing well. Not only that the man of the house and kids too help out in daily chores like never before. I am surprised to note that we are capable of doing so many activities in a day’s time. It is as if we are from a different world altogether. Working moms, dads, children taking online classes have all evolved and are becoming self-reliant.
Families are contemplating saying
goodbye to the “bais” altogether. This stems from the fact that the sales of
dishwashers and vacuum cleaners have sky-rocketed and people are feeling in
control of their stuff. Maybe the maids will be back, but their tasks will be
curtailed. Some people do not yet want to get back to normal and would rather
wait for a few more months. Quite reasonable on their part. It will of course
take time to accept the new normal and get over corona fears. But there will be
many relaxations post May 17. Let us get back to life slowly and take the necessary
precautions. As one of my friends put it, each one of us will get it, it’s a matter
of when. So corona might strike us and it is up to our bodies to develop the
antibodies against the virus so that we can be safe in the most natural way!
The story of Winter Garden is something that builds up bit by bit. It is a story within a story and is pretty slow at first. It’s about two sisters, Meredith and Nina, and their mom, Anya who has been very cold to them all her life, and they couldn’t understand the reason for the same. When their father is on the deathbed, he takes a promise from the daughters that they will listen to Anya’s fairy tale in detail and try to know more about their mom.
death, Nina cajoles Anya to tell them the story and slowly but surely they
uncover that their mom is actually Vera and has a past that they know nothing
about. Vera’s family and her kids had witnessed pretty hostile situation during
the Second World War. They come to know how Vera dealt with the war situation
and lost her sister, mother, and son under extreme circumstances. I got very
emotional at one point when the story turns very gloomy when Vera details out
how they went through life without food and how she even fed her own blood from
her finger to her son, whom she couldn’t save from the clutches of death. That’s
the reason why later in life she was very interested in cooking and always used
to cook much more than what was required. She had seen very bad days in life.
beautifully illustrates why it is important to know your mother’s past to be
able to understand your own bearings in this world. Indeed, I felt that Vera
was a very strong woman who did her level best to tide over the disturbing war
conditions but sadly the impact of that experience on her life was so profound
that she could not get involved and participate in her daughter’s childhood. The
mother daughter relationship though is presented in a warm manner and one does
feel that Vera should have disclosed the secret much before to her daughters.
But it all comes together towards the end.
part of the book is actually a sad account of the extreme living conditions
that Vera had to face during the war. Later in the story she does come out of
her shell and starts interacting with her daughters in a friendly and open
manner. I would say it was a beautiful read towards the end. In real life, some
moms are very communicative with their children while others just go through
the chores without much thought. But a healthy mom-daughter relationship is
required to be successful in life in general. This book drives home this point
Before I go ahead and tell you how much I enjoyed birding at Surajpur, I would like to stress that reconnecting with nature has both physical and psychological impact that is good for human health and well-being. Keeping that in mind, it is time to introspect if your outings are just restricted to closed spaces. If that is the case, you need to get some fresh air too! In times of smoke and pollution all around and the air quality index shooting off the roof, a morning visit to a bird sanctuary will help calm your senses and will prepare you to take on life as it is. Though to be frank, I was myself coaxed to be a part of this birding trip by hubby and my daughter.
We started early
around 6 am and reached Greater Noida in around one and a half hour. The
parking was almost full and people of the birding group that we are a part of
were already there. It was cold but pleasant and we started the walk into the
forest-like space. A narrow ‘pagdandi’ helped us keep track of the direction.
We got to see many boards with details of the birds that we could find in the
darling daughter started taking quick shots in succession with her camera to
capture the birds idly resting or flying around. Some common sense rules of
birding include maintaining silence so that the birds are not scared away. In
addition, you need to wear clothes that act as a camouflage so you do not
become the object of attention. The birds need your attention, not the other
The walk was
refreshing and we wanted to linger on for some more time. I would like to
recommend this place and have also added a few pictures so that you get the overall
idea of the place. So, wake up early and visit Surajpur to be one with nature!
I had heard that Udaipur is called the city of the lakes and when I got there it was much more beautiful than what I had expected. It is also called the ‘Venice of the east’ due to its lakes, gardens, havelis, and forts. As we went to see the amazing picturesque spots in Udaipur, one thing became clear that this place was loved by the tourists and locals alike. This city was founded in the 15th century by Maharana Udai Singh on the advice of a sage he encountered on his hunting expedition to Lake Pichola. The sage bestowed his blessings that the palace the king builds will add to its prosperity. The boundary of lake Pichola was clean and free of litter which seemed to be an achievement in itself. Lake Pichola looks resplendent and you would like to instantly take a few pictures out there. This city has, for decades, inspired everyone from authors like Rudyard Kipling to filmmakers. The James Bond film Occopussy was extensively shot here.
So on the
first day, after settling down at Lalit Laxmi Niwas palace, we headed off to
the City Palace to witness the rich cultural history of Udaipur. It took us a
couple of hours to take in the beautiful City palace after which we rested for
some time in the Sunrise Restaurant. Then we headed off to the boat ride to the
Jag Mandir, which is located at the center of Lake Pichola. The boat ride
around the lake should not be missed as it will rejuvenate you beyond doubt. We
also visited the Sajjangarh widelife sanctuary where we were able to spot many
wild animals. There are golf carts functional there which will take you to the
enclosures and bring you back to the fort exit. We also visited the Hathipole
market where we did some shopping. But a word of caution here. Don’t trust the
Uber drivers in Udaipur. If you want a cab, you should prefer Ola over Uber
which are easily available. If you wish to explore the local restaurants, you
can reach Chand pole by the cab and then walk up to Gangaur ghat. There are
many good restaurants there. One of them is Café Boho, which we liked very
much. The atmosphere is very warm and welcoming and the food is good too. Same
is the case with Yummy Yoga which is a rooftop restaurant. But you will have to
climb staircases so think before you plan to go there. We had our breakfasts at
Padmini, which is at Laxmi Niwas and would like to add that the breakfast was
good. However, when we tried out Aangan restaurant inside Laxmi niwas, it did
not live up to the expectations.
thoroughly enjoyed our stay in Udaipur and then headed off to the next
Half-yearly exams are ending
tomorrow and finally I have got some time to put my thoughts to words. More so,
because the only exam left is the third language and darling daughter is
well-equipped to deal with French on her own. I am not exactly a passive
listener for other subjects and try to give my two cents in the time of need.
And yes, Google baba is always there for us when we get stuck.
Moving on from the family
brouhaha, today I would like to bring up the topic of ‘screen time’ which was
almost absent in our times. These days, kids are engulfed with various
categories of screen time, starting from television, tablet, laptop, and our
very own favourite gadget, mobile! So one thing after another and there you go.
Children do not have time to lift an eyelid or go play outside; remember
physical activity is a must. They are glued to the available gadget whenever
they can make fool of their parents. I have noticed that some parents in an
attempt to complete their work at home themselves provide these amenities to
their children. They will do their own work while the child happily watches
youtube videos to the hilt. Even infants these days would not eat their food if
they don’t see a specific program on the tablet which the poor bai holds right
in front of their eyes…
Coming to the point, needless to
say that I am not against the concept of screen time, but I feel that it should
be restricted by the parents and should be available to the children under some
form of supervision. It is for the experts to decide how much time should be
spent by a child in front of the screen. It should not happen that the child’s
eyesight suffers due to the neglect by the parents. That’s the reason why
grandparents are again in demand these days as they can at least engage the
child in a conversation and distract his/her mind from the screen.
There are parents who are giving a mobile to their children at a young age of 10 or 11 but it should be used under guidance. Similar should be the case for all other screens. Most importantly, there should be some emphasis on the family time when either everyone eats together or are engaged in an activity. What do you feel about this topic? How much screen time are your children getting?
This month saw the untimely
passing away of two stalwarts of BJP, Sushma Swaraj and Arun Jaitley. It is
indeed a sad month for the party as these leaders are irreplaceable. The void
that they have left cannot be filled by anyone easily. Both the leaders were
very knowledgeable and had a large fan following across the nation. May their
respective souls rest in peace.
Right now I am a little excited
on hearing the news that our very own badminton player, P. V. Sindhu has won
the World Championship. Incidentally, it is her mom’s birthday and she has
dedicated her win to her mother. What a nice piece of news to end a Sunday
with. Sindhu was trying to win for the last couple of times but could bag the
medal this time round. Coach Gopichand must be on cloud nine and why not. It’s
a big honour for the nation.
The situation in J & K is
slowly returning to normal. It will take a lot of time though. Due to the militancy,
the development could not take place but slowly people are realising that the
government decision to scrape Article 370 was the right one. Recently read
about a couple who left their high profile jobs to settle down in Laddakh and
help in the overall development of the region. Thanks to them, solar panels
have been installed in many schools and children are getting the education they
so rightly deserve.
I have been reading a book or two
and the next post would most probably be a book review. So, stay tuned!
The suicide of VG Siddhartha has
yet again brought depression to the forefront. He was unable to pay his debts
and as a result chose the easier route to eternal peace. He didn’t want to take
any further blame for the dire situation at Café Coffee Day. CCD is a popular
coffee outlet for the youngsters as one can sit there without being disturbed
for long. Even free Wi-Fi is available.
Depression can ruin anyone’s life
but when it goes out of hand it takes the form of suicide. People with
depression are so despondent at times that they don’t think even once how their
near and dear ones will cope with the situation once they are gone. The mind
plays games that no one knows about. It is very necessary to contain the
problem before it goes out of hand either through medication or counselling or
both in moderation. The role of family members in providing support to the
depressed is also of utmost importance.
Another interesting piece of news
that I came across today related to a customer asking for a non-muslim guy for
delivering food from Zomato as saavan is going on. He received a befitting
reply from the founder Deepinder Goyal, “We aren’t sorry to lose business that
comes in the way of our values.” Actually it is a dangerous trend which should
be contained as early as possible. Such absurd demands cannot be met and they
only show the mental bankruptcy of the person demanding.
India is a secular state and
people should be encouraged to treat the fellow men in the same regard. There
should be no distinction based on caste or creed and everyone should be treated
with equal respect though sadly that is not the case. But the bottomline is
that whenever there is an opportunity to put things right, we should do that as
was done by Zomato founder.
I lost my baby Beetle yesterday. He was a pet dachshund and lived his life to the fullest, being ill for about a month before moving away to a whole new world. I am still coming to terms with the fact that he is no more around and I can’t take his name often. I am remembering all the good moments spent with him one by one. He was always active and jovial at home. Outside of home, he used to become a bit territorial but we could manage that. I was his mom and he was closest to me though Harsha and Eva were also very close to him, something I witnessed when his last rights were being performed. All of us broke into tears as we shared a bond and Beetle was our family member.
What was the most funny thing
about Beetle? Well, he had a liking for the carpet in the living room and used
to dig right in its middle whenever he felt like. It was as if a tunnel was
being built with all diligence. This breed, dachshund, are famous for their
digging and hunting capabilities. Also, he had a very loud bark, enough to
scare a non dog lover. He used to guard the gate with all his might and wouldn’t
allow anyone to come in easily. I had to lock him up briefly before I could
even talk to the person at my door. Whenever I felt low, he would come and sit
with me and try to comfort me.
Beetle was a perfect apartment
dog and stayed with us for close to 15 years. We will miss him terribly and the
void cannot be filled by anyone else. I feel like I have lost someone very near
and dear. Hope he finds even more loving parents in his next life. You will
live with us in our memories, Beetle! Goodbye for now.