Divya used to live with her brother, Rajesh and her mother. She was a tall dusky girl and was working as a teacher in a secondary school. Things were going fine till Rani came into their life. Rani was Rajesh’s wife, and was very headstrong and authoritative. It did not take her long to understand that Divya is not getting married due to her complexion and is proving to be a burden on her brother and mother. She began to poke Divya on small small things which broke Divya’s heart. Now she also longed to have a place of her own where she can relax without someone disturbing her.
In the meantime, Rani got
pregnant and had a son and as a result she was on the top of the world again.
Both Divya and her mother took great care of Rani and her child and he became
the apple of everyone’s eyes. Still Rani’s behaviour towards Divya did not
undergo any change. Now and then she would comment on Divya’s clothes, eating
habits etc. and she would become distraught.
One day, Rani started complaining
of a pain in her tummy and waited for Rajesh to come back from office. The pain
persisted and they found it necessary to visit a doctor. The doctor did
necessary tests and told them after a couple of days that Rani’s kidneys are
damaged and she would need a transplant asap. They were flabbergasted. They came back home and shared the situation
with their mother and Divya. Doctor had said that if someone from the household
is ready to give the kidney then that would be quite suitable for Rani. Divya
got emotional and though Rani had always treated her with contempt, she came up
with the idea of her donating a kidney to Rani. Everyone was taken aback
including Rani who could only think as far as Divya’s complexion was concerned
and couldn’t understand what a wonderful heart she had. With tears in her eyes,
she thanked Divya and made a mental note never to trouble Divya again.
Vijay and Neeta were a happily
married couple. Vijay was tall but Neeta just about reached his shoulder. Theirs
was a love marriage. They were seven years into their marriage and had a
daughter Vini. As both of them were working, Vini was taken care of by a maid.
The maid was a reliable one and Neeta would call her from time to time to check
up on Vini. Vini was the happiest when both parents were at home and indulged
in some activity with her.
One day it so happened that Neeta’s
boss offered her an opportunity that she couldn’t refuse out rightly. She had
to travel to the US for three months as there was some marketing campaign going
on there. When Neeta could not reply in affirmative immediately, her boss
understood and suggested that she can ask Vijay and get back to him.
That night after dinner when Vijay was in a good mood, Neeta brought up the subject of travel. Though Vijay was quiet for some time, he finally said that Neeta should go and he will manage somehow. Maybe they would need to call Vijay’s mother who can be with Vini for three months. Neeta now understood that Vijay was concerned about her career too and made a mental note that she would do her best in those three months.
The ocean waves touched his feet
and it felt nice. Raghav liked to walk on the sand to lift his spirits and calm
his mind. Every time he came here, the waves seemed to tell him to erase his
worries and start writing on a clean slate again. Raghav was a Marketing
Manager at a reputed firm and wanted to climb the ladder desperately. He had
been brought up in a low income household and had seen not so good days. That
day when he was back home late night, his mother was still awake and looked
“What happened, beta? Why are you
not picking up your phone? Anyway the dinner is on the table. Take care.” She
knew that he would not share his worries with her, never did, and so didn’t
want to probe him any further. But she did show her concern. His parents were
humble people who wanted to spend the rest of their life by modest means. Though
Raghav thought that by bringing home new gadgets he is making their life
easier, they were okay as it is but made it a point to appreciate the new
stuff. All they wanted now was a daughter-in-law who could take care of their
son so that they can visit the holy places as they had planned earlier. But
Raghav was not ready, as yet. Being the only child, he wanted to earn plenty to
support the parents and the wife but it was still not enough.
Another issue was his discomfort
in front of girls. In office, he would become nervous if a girl started up a
chat with him. He knew he had to overcome this otherwise it would be difficult
to climb ahead. Communication is the key to success and he was uncomfortable
with almost 50% of the population. His latest worry was that his current boss
was shifting to another department and his new boss is going to be a lady! He
was pretty friendly with his current boss and used to chat with him informally
too. But how will he deal with a lady; this was troubling him to no end.
Finally, the day arrived when the
new boss, Trisha came to the office. Trisha was not very beautiful but had a
charm around her. She seemed to spin tales at the drop of the hat and made the
atmosphere light in a moment’s time. In a group especially, she lead by
example. She was in a habit of making people comfortable by listening to them.
Her only drawback was that she was a bit short tempered. When Trisha met Raghav,
he was in one of those moods not open to communication. But she wanted to ask
something and he had to respond. Over a period of time, Trisha started
listening to his concerns and they grew comfortable with each other. Now,
Raghav could gather courage to engage in an informal chat with his colleagues,
which slowly restored his sanity.
Back home, one day he called his
mom and told her to look for suitable matches. His parents had assumed that he
wouldn’t marry and were elated with this change in stance. Soon enough, they
found a pretty girl for their eligible bachelor and they were married with pomp
and show. When he got promoted soon after, they said that the girl is very
lucky for Raghav, which he too acknowledged. But deep down he understood that it
was the magic of perfect communication that has seen him through. He went to
the ocean and sands once again not alone but with his wife and they witnessed a
beautiful sunset together.
Gita and Nakul had a love marriage and had known each other
since their college days. Nakul used to follow Gita in the college compound and
wasn’t perturbed by her cold shoulder. Then when one day, Gita agreed to talk
to him, both understood that this would go a long way. They started by talking
about anything and everything under the sun and later would share their notes
as well. They got married soon after.
But now after five years, things had changed drastically. Nakul
was in a high profile job while Gita engaged herself with a few NGOs and used
to work from home. They could hardly find time for each other. They had a son,
Pramit whom they loved to the moon and back. Everything was going well till one
day when Nakul’s father suffered a heart attack and passed away and it was
decided that Nakul’s mother would come to stay with them. Gita was a bit sceptical
about this but didn’t raise her voice as they were under mourning.
Soon enough, mother-in-law arrived with all her belongings
and settled in the house. After the initial mourning and low mood, she reverted
to her own self and started giving orders around the house, as usual. Gita was
aware of the advice and orders but couldn’t do much about it, result being that
she started getting grumpy at the drop of the hat. Sometimes she did try to
make her mother-in-law understand that this was her house and she rules the
roost but she couldn’t.
One day when her mother-in-law scolded the house help badly
for not doing a task properly, then Gita raised the issue with Nakul that his
mom is interfering a bit too much. Nakul understood and told his mom to take a
backseat now as Gita was capable of handling things on her own. As a result of
this, she did sit back for a couple of days but soon was back to her old ways.
Gita couldn’t handle it anymore and made a plan to visit her own mom for a few
days. Nakul took a promise from her that she will be back within a week’s time
as they needed her.
That day when Nakul and her mom were alone, they started
chatting and Nakul had to mention that she needed to stay within her
self-defined boundaries and needed to gel well with Gita. She was oblivious of
the fact that Gita had to take a break because of her. So now when Gita was not
around she understood her importance in the house. On the other hand, Gita’s
mom told her that there needs to be a fine adjustment in her relationship with
her mother-in-law and her because after all she was her hubby’s mom. In this
case, if Gita needed to take a step back, it is fine. That day Gita slept
nicely because she understood that her own mom was mature enough to understand the
issue and then give advice rather than provoke her. A fine adjustment is what
she was looking forward to now once she was back home!
This is a story about a little girl, Aanya, who was the only
child of her parents and longed for a company. She used to see other children playing
with their pets and wished she had a pet too. Her parents also understood that
she wanted a pet badly and so on her eighth birthday, they gifted her a lab
puppy all wrapped up in red ribbon. Aanya was on top of the world that day when
she saw the puppy. She instantly named him Cuddles as he was very cuddly and
Aanya was making plans now that she would introduce Cuddles
to her friends. As her parents had told her that Cuddles is also her
responsibility not only someone to play with. So Aanya would take Cuddles out
for a walk daily in her society compound. Slowly Cuddles started growing up and
in a few months he looked like a grown up dog. The bond between Aanya and
Cuddles increased manifold as she used to take care of his needs and in return
Cuddles gave her unconditional love.
Aanya used to take the lift everyday as they were on seventh
floor. One day, when Aanya was holding Cuddles’ leash she went inside the lift
with the leash while Cuddles was left outside and the door of the lift closed.
Aanya could hear a whimpering sound and was scared that Cuddles would not
survive though she had left the leash. However, when she reached the seventh
floor, she saw Cuddles standing outside with a broken leash. She heaved a sigh
of relief and hugged him tightly with tears in her eyes. Quickly, she went home
to inform her mom about what had happened. Mom told her to be more vigilant and
careful in future. Aanya decided that she would use the stairs now as it would
be a good exercise for both her and Cuddles.
Compassion is a necessary ingredient of healthy living and
if you lack it, it is difficult to live a happy life. In these days of rapid
urbanization, being compassionate is the last thing on people’s mind.
Everything is measured in terms of money. The more money you have the more you
can harp on how bad India is in terms of infrastructure, food, and other
resources. Such people have lost their sensitivity that they too are living in
India only and they should speak well of it. The bottom line is that one should
be compassionate about people as well as animals too no matter where you are
Arti was one such lady who had stayed a couple of years in the US with her family but now was back in India as her husband’s job demanded it. The problem was that all her interactions with her friends and neighbours were based on the comparisons between India and the U.S. This resulted in a lot of negativity and slowly and steadily people started avoiding her. Her friends used to point it out to her that she needed to be more compassionate towards India in general but she could not understand. All she wanted to do was to give advice on how things can be improved in India in spite of the fact that there is so much pollution and population.
One fine day, Arti’s world came crumbling down when she came
to know that she was suffering from an autoimmune disease which would require
bone marrow transplant. When friends and family came to know, one of her
sisters agreed to give the bone marrow so that Arti could recover. Over a
period of time Arti realized that the culture in India is much better than that
in the west and she should stop demeaning India just to highlight the
materialistic aspects of the west. Even the friends and extended family understood
that Arti has learnt her lesson the hard way and is now on the right track. All’s
well that ends well.
Neeta Sharma was just another 65 year old home maker who was
trying her best to live her life fully. She had three children and all of them
were married and settled. She had many friends and well-wishers whom she used
to meet off and on to keep herself in cheerful spirits. One day she asked her
husband, who was employed in a multi-national company, if she could visit the
hills for some time and get a breath of fresh air. Anyways Delhi NCR had a very
poor Air quality index and this would help ease her asthma symptoms too. Mr.
Sharma suggested that it would be better if she went with a few friends as then
they will be able to handle situations better.
Neeta enthusiastically searched for a quiet ashram on the
banks of river Ganga and decided that she would detoxify herself there. Two of
her friends Nalini and Malini were also going with her and they made their
plans accordingly. On reaching their destination, they found that the place was
no short of a paradise. The weather was a bit cold and there was greenery and
freshness all around. When they landed in the ashram, they were told that they
can freshen up and rest today and the Guruji will meet them next morning. All
three friends settled in their rooms and had a light dinner and went to sleep.
Next morning, they were called in to meet Guruji. He was a saintly man and
asked them the purpose of their visit. Neeta told them that they were out to
find nirvana in the hills. Guruji smiled and said that these days every other
person is out to find nirvana. Even the foreigners come here to search for
eternal bliss but they don’t know that it will evade them till there is a
substantial change in their habits. So, eat, pray, and love in moderation. Do
not hurt others knowingly and do what you are good at with a pure heart and
full dedication. Let karma do the rest. Neeta understood that nirvana is not found
in a place but is a way of life.